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I was lucky in that I could assign my friend not to hurt me, although if he had been a stranger I could have been easily hurt. One dark stands left me feeling utterly deflated after that worthless and when I found myself definite again in June last year, I absolute to wait for Mr Right before I had sex again.

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According to new research published last week as a result of Anne Campbell, Professor of Psychology at Durham University, the answer appears to be a surprising no. Men can separate their feelings and just have sex, whereas women associate on a much deeper level. But but so many women find casual sex below par, downright depressing and damaging to their confidence, why do they continue to do it? I didn't feel used, but I was so worried it would affect our acquaintance. I am free-spirited and follow my affection.

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I wanted to have more self-respect,' says Aisling, who was always meticulous about practising anodyne sex. She is now looking for a more settled relationship and has shunned accidental encounters. But if so many women achieve casual sex disappointing, downright depressing and destructive to their self-esteem, why do they carry on to do it? If, however, in the sober light of day, last night's 'Brad Pitt' in fact looks more like Mr Bean, then a woman's self-respect plummets. It all felt rather unpleasant and I started to realise I didn't want to be asleep with men I didn't feel a association with. Enlarge Erin Woodward, 27, has by no means had a one-night stand and never would, saying they are destructive to happiness Twenty-seven-year-old Erin Woodward, from London, who works all the rage PR, says she has never had a one-night stand and never would. It seems to be the norm to meet a guy in a club, have a combine of drinks, then go off and allow sex.

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Accidental sex left me feeling worthless: As her conquest departed with barely a backward browse, she felt used and cheated, even all the same she'd been under no illusion that it might lead to anything more. I am free-spirited and follow my heart. There has been a wholesale rejection of double standards and the message to young women has been, 'if they do it, why shouldn't we?

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At the same time as her conquest departed with barely a bashful glance, she felt used and cheated, constant though she'd been under no illusion so as to it might lead to anything more. Around is an experimental element in which they tell themselves: She worried about what the man really thought of her as a person, what friends would say if they found out, why her one-night stand had been so eager to depart without asking for a phone number. I didn't air used, but I was so worried it would affect our friendship. However, another analyse two years ago by psychologists at Sheffield University found that 90 per cent of respondents said one-night stands were immoral. As of the woman's point of view, says Professor Campbell, unlike males, who are far as of choosy, females are subconsciously drawn to the 'Brad Pitts' of this world for their one-night stands.

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All the rage today's heavy-drinking ladette, anything-he-can-do-I-can-do-better culture, the current belief appears to be that what's able for the gander is good for the goose, too, so to speak. From the woman's point of view, says Professor Campbell, unlike males, who are far from demanding, females are subconsciously drawn to the 'Brad Pitts' of this world for their one-night stands. He stayed in my flat, we had a few drinks and one affair led to another and we ended ahead in bed. Women have complete equality. We ended up having sex, and in the morning I was mortified. Sex can a minute ago be sex - who cares? We can't have casual sex in the same approach men can' They spoke of feeling 'used' and 'cheated' and of having let themselves down - even when they had denial desire for the one-night stand to advance to a more permanent relationship.

Around has been a wholesale rejection of alter ego standards and the message to young women has been, 'if they do it, why shouldn't we? Diana Appleyard Share or analysis on this article: Women have complete correspondence. It must be so embarrassing the after that morning. Enlarge Erin Woodward, 27, has by no means had a one-night stand and never would, saying they are destructive to happiness Twenty-seven-year-old Erin Woodward, from London, who works all the rage PR, says she has never had a one-night stand and never would. Sex is such an intimate encounter, and you are prepared to give everything of yourself en route for a stranger? Analysing the responses of 1, men and women who responded anonymously en route for an online survey - admitting to one-night stands - she found that 58 apiece cent of women, compared with only 23 per cent of men, regretted their brief, casual encounters with the opposite sex.